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Do you know the one next to you?
Choosing the people to have in our lives can be challenging. Everyone we choose to keep in our lives serves a purpose, but sometimes we may not know who they are. People get into toxic relationships because they don’t take the initiative to choose partners. As a result, they let themselves be picked and are so thrilled and pleased that someone is interested in them that their neediness ultimately wins the argument. Consider the relationships in your life, both romantic and platonic: I’m curious about their origin. In general, when you meet someone, do you pay attention to whether or not they like you, or do you start by thinking about whether or not you like them and why you like them?
How should I choose the people to have in my life?
If you want to have great friends, you must first prove that you are one yourself. If you live by the Golden Rule, which states that you should treat people the way you would love to be treated, you will find your friendships to be meaningful and satisfying. It’s essential to choose friends that share the same sentiments as you, or you will be stuck in a one-sided relationship. Here are some of the factors to consider when selecting the people to have in your life:
Choose supportive people — You want buddies who will appreciate your achievements rather than endure them. A real friend will share in your…
